He may love you. He probably does. He probably thinks about you all the time. But that isn’t what matters. What matters is what he’s doing about it, and what he’s doing about it is nothing. And if he’s doing nothing, you most certainly shouldn’t do anything. You need someone who goes out of their way to make it obvious that they want you in their life.this. (via housewifeswag)
Anonymous asked: Do you think if a girl doesn't give it up on the first or second date, guys lose interest? I've already slept with this guy, but he disappears a lot. So I want to make sure I don't give it up too easily, you know. Now that he's back.
If a guy loses interest because you don’t have sex with him on the first few dates, you need to lose him. on the flip side, you if you want to have sex with him on the first date, that’s your choice.
I personally won’t have sex with a guy for a while just to see if he sticks around. I’ve made a guy wait 6 months before. If he’s only in it for sex and you’re looking for more, he can walk out the door.